
We are so ready for summer around here; for grilling and swimming and eating popsicles. And sipping on tall glasses of pineapple juice and coconut milk that may or may not have generous splashes of rum in them. (It helps the kids sleep.)

Shaun took a week off when the baby arrived and we imagined we would spend the week doing these things (swimming and grilling, not drugging the children)... but instead it rained. And rained and rained.

I took these the first day we were home from the hospital, I believe. And then it rained...

And rained and rained... for forty days and forty nights until Shaun started gathering wood and animals and- what? Don't you know sleep deprivation causes slight exaggerations? But the rain was okay because it forced us to rest. And it forced the kids to play together. Inside.

Evan and Madalyn think it's some treat to get to have a slumber party in the same bed on non-school nights- which we've had a lot of since school it OUT now. They like to tell stories and take turns trading off narrators in the middle (my dad used to do this with me and my brother- the game is such where you say beep to let the other person know you are now picking up where they left off-) so I passed this tradition on to them a few months ago, naturally, as it's a GREAT game for people who like to exaggerate, which incidentally, all children do like to exaggerate...

...anyway- one night Shaun and I were listening through their door because they'd been going on and on with their story for hours...

We hear Madalyn finish up her part that went something like: and then the bear flew to her castle with her magic wand- to which Evan beeped in and continued: but the bear was just kidding about all of that. And then he went on to pick up the story where'd he'd properly left it- you know, before it became too fantastical and far-fetched from the plot he had in mind at the get-go; the right plot. I have NO IDEA where he got that need to be in control from but I suddenly feel a deep pool of pity in my chest when I think of my own little brother.

But such is the life of a little sibling, of a little sister. I've had to keep telling Evan not to bully her into playing his way and to let her have ideas, too. I was complaining about this tendency of his to Shaun and Shaun was boring holes in my head with his eyeballs. WHAT? I said. I wonder where on earth he got that from, he said. Or SAID WITH HIS EYES.

Not too long ago we were testing Evan on times tables and division at the dinner table (he begs for us to do this,) and Madalyn chimed in, "okay, let me test you, Evan... what's 25 divided by 489?" Evan looked at her with pity and said, "no, sweetie, you don't know divided-by's yet."

Well! You should've seen her face crumple into a scowl as she put her hands on her hips and replied, "I am NOT a sweetie. I am a big girl."

Ah, good times. Good laughs for the tired parents who need a few laughs in the midst of the tired.

Charlie was hoping for sunshine, too.

Because the kids aren't the only ones who like to jump in and make a splash.


But only Charlie can shower Jack in water and make him squeal and giggle like this. Jack needs some swimming lessons. He was swimming at the end of last summer and now he's freaked out again... which is better than no caution when I'm sitting and nursing and supervising... yes, caution is much preferred to reckless abandon or I'd be jumping in to save him with a baby hanging from me. But as soon as my six weeks of recovery is up, I'm giving the boy some lessons myself. Whether he likes it or not. Because I can just see him inwardly wishing he could join the others in their pool games while outwardly worried about- you know- being able to breathe and not sink.

And here is a shot of Sam bonding with daddy, though as I look at this he has changed SO MUCH since I took it. He'll be three weeks tomorrow! Can you believe it? Well, I can't.
Happy Summer!!